Women of Influence

It goes without saying that my mother (Barb Suiter), is the greatest influence on my life, but this blog is about 2 other women- unrelated to me- that have had and still continue to have, incredible, positive influence in my life. 
The word, MOTHER IN LAW for so many, has horrible meaning. I was thinking about the song from the 1960, "Mother-in-law," and here are just a few phrases from it:
-The worst person I know
-Sent from down below
-Satan should be her name
And a few quotes I found: "How many mothers in law does it take to ruin a marriage? Just one-- MINE!"
"I really do have a soft spot for my mother in law. It's just been freshly dug in the garden behind the garage."

I know we laugh at those, but sadly some people do feel that way about their mother in law.
I know this sounds bad, because I DO know that God hates divorce, and the whole thing is horrible, but the 2 women I want to talk about-- are my 2 mothers in law.
I can't imagine where I would be without either of them! 
Prov.31 is familiar, but it was written for Jean Williams! I have nothing but praise for this woman who loved me for over 25 years. I do not know anyone who could say anything bad about her. "Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all. Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised." Prov. 31:29-30
She never gave unsolicited advice, but she was one I would seek out for advice. She was never rude or made anyone uncomfortable, but rather she is the most gracious woman I know. She always has time for others, and is always doing for others- especially her family.
She has loved my kids and done for them (as with all her grandchildren and great grandchildren), and even to this day, she babysits Natalie (my granddaughter) when Hannah has to work. Hailey is living with her, and I know how she worries about the boys! 
She is a prayer warrior! I can always know she is praying for the kids.
 She has been cooking Sunday dinners now for .... I guess over 20 years! And, yes, she can cook!
When I went through the divorce - I know I hurt her (understandably so), but she has been gracious to me.
Thank you, "mom" for everything. You truly are a woman of influence- not just for me, but for so many. If you know her, you will agree with that!

How can someone be blessed again? Deborah Prevette is not only my mother in law but my friend. (We are pretty close in age! LOL) She is an amazing woman of God, and I love her very much. Usually when you are upset with your husband, you don't go running to your mother in law, but I do! I can talk to her about anything. 
The book of Ruth reminds me of our relationship. "She speaks with wisdom and faithful instruction is on her tongue." Prov. 31:26
I talk to her often, and when I do, she always speaks with wisdom. She speaks truth and love to me. She is a prayer warrior also!! 
I thank her for her unconditional love - not only of her son- but for me as well. She has her hands full all the time, and has dealt with physical issues while doing it. She is tiny, but has the heart and determination of a lion! 
She has been inviting to all my kids as well, and makes them feel comfortable. 
I have been truly blessed to have these 2 women in my life. I encourage you to tell your mother in law how much you appreciate and love her (hoping you do!) I truly don't know how you can top these 2 though.